"I have come to a frightening conclusion.
I am the decisive element in the classroom.
It is my personal approach that creates the climates.
It is my daily mood that makes the weather.
As a teacher I possess tremendous power to make a child's life miserable or joyous.
I can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration.
I can humiliate or humor, hurt or heal.
In all situations, it is my response that decides whether a crisis
will be escalated or de-escalated, and a child humanized or de-humanized."
The Chinese Proverb says "I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand. That should be the early childhood education motto. Children need to be given the chance to try, experiment, manipulate materials and play so that they can learn to understand how things work.
My favorite thing to do is read. I read for knowledge and I read for enjoyment. I have many favorite authors and a 5 shelf bookshelf with my "to be read" books on it. My sister jokes that my biggest fear is finishing a book and not having another one to start. As funny as that is, it is also very true. I enjoy a wide variety of books and therefor I like to have many books at my fingertips because I just never know what kind of book I will want to dive into next. My goal is for my children to love to read as much as I do. Even though they are both able to read to themselves, I still read to them every night because that is our most precious time of the day together. When it comes to reading there is a quote by Mem Fox (an author) that summarizes how truly important it is to read aloud to our children. "If parents understood the huge educational benefit and intense happiness brought about by reading aloud to their children, and if every parent-and every adult caring for a child-read aloud a minimum of three stories a day to the children in their lives, we could probably wipe out illiteracy within one generation." Knowing how much I enjoy reading, I ache for the people who are unable to read. I am going to attach a video clip of Alex "reading" when he was 2 years old. I read him the same book over and over again to the point where he was able to read it himself and he is so proud that he can read! Every child should have the opportunity to feel that pride in themselves!
I have been asked to pick one children's book that I love and explain why I love it. I can't possibly pick one. I have 5 huge rubbermaid containers of young children's books in our closet because I had to clear off our bookshelves to make room for our chapter books. I would say one of the many I like is "Love you Forever" by Robert Munsh and Sheila McGraw. I read this book to my students when I was teaching and I really felt a connection to the book. When I had my first son the very first book I read to him the day I brought him home from the hospital was "Love You Forever" and I cried the entire way through the book. I have read it to both of my sons on numerous occassions and tear up every time. I would like to talk about one other book to leave you on a funny note. "Cha- Cha Chimps" by Julie Durango and Eleanor Taylor is one of the funniest books I have ever read. My children and I laugh our way through this book. As a mom and a teacher I know there is nothing better than the sound of children's laughter.
Below is a picture of my family. Aaron is 8 and Alex is 6 (well 7 on Sunday and he would rather you thought of him as a 7 year old).
Amy, Your reflections on teaching and raising children, and on reading have moved me. I am especially sobered by Haim Ginott's "Between Teacher and Child." In addition, your opinion that the Chinese Proverb that says "I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand should be the early childhood education motto is one I agree with as well. Yes, I agree as you stated - that "Children need to be given the chance to try, experiment, manipulate materials and play so that they can learn to understand how things work. Too often teachers structure and plan according to curriculum, testing, etc. rather than being led by the child's natural curiousities and interests.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful investment of time into your children's lives, as you read to and with them. It's interesting, I just asked my 20 year old son a few days ago if he remembered the one book series that I read outl oud to he and his brother called "The Seven Sleeper" series. He did! He got excited and started telling his girlfriend about the story, asked me if I still had them, and grabbed the first one off of the bookshelf to look at it with her.
You have a beautiful family and it is apparent how very much you love and care for your boys!
We share the same fear, Amy! Finishing a book without another one to start. I just finished The Help by Kathryn Stockett and I failed to start an overlapping book to ease the pain of it ending.:)
ReplyDelete"Love You Forever" is a tear-jerker of a children's book, to be sure! I love it, too. I like all Robert Munsch books - that one was especially tender. "The Paper Bag Princess" is quite famous, but his "Purple, Green, and Yellow" is my favorite. I agree with you (and Mem Fox!)about reading to your children every. In fact, I value reading aloud to children so much that two weeks ago I signed up to read as a volunteer at the pediatric department at Kaiser Hospital near my home. I don't know who will enjoy it more - me or the kids. :) Great start to your blog!
Amy,
ReplyDeleteGreat news! I have a new writer for you to follow! My daughter is in the process of publishing her first book. Since she cannot work outside the home, (special needs), and since she seems to have been born with a writers talent, she has decided to begin a writing career.
Mary L.
Hello Amy. Thanks for sharing the Haim Ginott poem. I loved it. The dynamic between the teacher and the child is powerful, and it can be scary when you realize just how powerful it is. I am also inspired by your committment to read to your family regularly. Lastly, I can feel how the inability of so many children to read at grade-level bothers you. For African-American boys the statistics are terrible. Thanks for sharing your personal story and picture. I can tell your family means a lot to you.
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ReplyDeleteYour words were touching. I believe in the power of words through reading. Reading is so important to the development of children. Your passion and love for children is clear.
Dearest Amy. . .
ReplyDeleteI post this note of thanks waaaayyyy back at the beginning of your blog --- the beginning of our journey together. My first few weeks of confusion and "overwhelmingness" in this new adventure was greatly tempered by our connection and by your sharing and encouragement.
I have related much of this class to a trip on a tour bus with people I did not know. It has been great fun sitting beside you on the bus. . . learning and sharing together. Not only do we have so many commonalities, we share a love and a passion for children. The ease at which you related was like sinking into a big cozy chair, yet your professionalism was upheld consistently. Thank you so very much for opening up and sharing your insights, your experiences, your dreams. . .
I feel as if we became friends as we journeyed together. Please accept this note of gratitude and I do wish you all of the very best as you begin a new journey in your life in May. We both have weddings on our mind! Yet as I am only planning a rehearsal dinner and supporting my son and his fiance' in their plans, you are planning your own wedding and anticipating a new and exciting season as a family. Not quite the Brady Bunch, but still an adjustment I'm certain.
It is my sincere hope that we will have the opportunity to ride together again at some part of the rest of our journey.
Cindy Larsen